Firstly, what is Gentle Domination? Well, there are many definitions floating around online but I would describe it as applying a softer, more nurturing approach to traditional BDSM dynamics. Let me sing words of encouragement while turning your bottom red with my paddle, pat your head as you kiss my heels, bring you to the edge of release, over and over until you’re begging me for mercy - and all whilst maintaining my characteristic warm and sunny disposition.

It’s my firm belief that all kinks can take place within a gentle context, even if they are generally perceived as ‘harsher’ such as impact play, humiliation & degradation. We can indulge in all of those and more, but I will hold your hand and kiss your cheek while doing it.

Affection, playfulness and care are central to my allure as a dominant and I prioritise creating an environment that feels safe, exploratory and free from shame… unless that’s what you are into, of course, in which case, I will enjoy nothing more than making you blush a deeper shade of pink than even my favourite lipstick.

If you are looking for a Domme who is going to shout and break you into submission through brute force, I am not the Dominant for you. Nor am I particularly sadistic in my appetite (although I can be mischievous in ways that sometimes gets me into trouble). I relish pushing subs to their absolute limits and sometimes even exploring new horizons of where those limits might be, but this will always be carried out safely, sanely and with consent (you can read more about the SCC, RACK and CCCC principles here).